So usually the older he gets the more he realizes that most women like affection in the form of compliments, shoulder rubs, kisses, etc. The older any person gets, the more comfortable he or she is in their own skin. By the time a man reaches a certain age, he’s pretty set in his ways.
Now this can be both good and bad; but at least you know what you’re dealing with as opposed to dating a man who is still trying to find himself.
As an “older woman” I find that my interests and hobbies have changed, my desire to partner with a long term someone is more discerning in attraction, and there is nothing better than humility and humor when it comes to dating and relationships. If you are searching for something with salacious drama, you might want to continue onto women who haven’t yet learned that drama needs to be left at the door.
It was my pal’s birthday party and the first time I had ever dragged my latest man-friend out with my buddies. ” Anything that would shut her up and let me enjoy my prized romance.
I wasn’t sure how it would go, yet there he was, charming the pants off them all by himself, busting out his A-material small talk with some friends in a corner. Instead I shoved a cracker in my mouth and mulled over her question as I pretended it was hard to chew. Yes, my new man was older than me, much older than me.
The more he or she knows and has done, the more of an asset he can be to a company. A man who has learned from his past relationships allows you to reap the benefits of all that he now knows.
Through trial and error he’s learned how to treat a woman and hopefully how to be a good man in a relationship.
Sure, he may still go out with his guys; but not nearly as much as he used to (or at least not for so many hours).
So if you’re looking for a guy who has gotten the club scene out of his system, older guys are usually a good look.If you haven’t tried it, you should at least consider it for the future based on the following reasons…Usually when a man is much older than you, he has himself together financially. If he’s substantially older, he’s had time to learn a lesson or two about saving and making money while many younger guys are still learning. He’s broken a few hearts, had his heart broken and probably dealt with many types of emotions when it comes to relationships.Dating an older woman requires ounces of contemplation. And by that I mean, if a younger man decides he has met the woman of his dreams, and she falls into the “cougar” status (I’m not a fan of that word, yet it still gets tossed around in the dating circles) then he had best be prepared to respect and be kind. When older women have experienced everything under the sun, and choose to continue in a realm of maturity and laughter, there is nothing more appealing than simplicity of living. We prefer the security of a man who knows how to please in the simplest of ways.And our purpose in life boils down to who you are, how are you doing emotionally, and can you still dance?Fortunately, there is less trial and error for you when he’s already learned much of what he needs to know.